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Flawed court needs to be remedied

By Jonathan Bornstein

New York state has a specialized kangaroo court, a boutique court, that purports to assist families, but for the litigant on the other side of this equation — the litigant who fights for his/her role in the family — there is a massive destruction of due process, destruction of relationships between children and parent, and persecution.

New York state’s Integrated Domestic Violence courts — introduced in 2001 as a “problem-solving court” — aims to expedite the judicial process for couples and families whose situations straddle the jurisdictions of the civil, family and criminal courts. More than 40 branches presently exist.

IDV court addresses systemic domestic problems by funneling to one judge all family actions: marital discord, divorce, custody, visitation, protection orders and real violence. Integrating the criminal and civil systems, it is presumed, will improve victim safety and offender accountability.

But in my experience, the exact opposite has happened. Under the control of one judge, without a jury, the court is a self-perpetuating, understaffed bureaucracy of summary justice bent on destroying normal relations between my children and me.

I have appeared before the court 36 times and am routinely treated as a criminal. My case isn’t unique; without safeguards, IDV court can easily be used as a tool of alleged “victims,” usually mothers — but fathers too — who exploit the system to get their way.

I have no criminal history, and my case was ultimately reduced to a plea of disorderly conduct — a violation, not a crime. Nevertheless, I am now essentially a criminal, for arguing with my spouse. And my opponent continues to use the court, as one might a private investigator, to supervise my time with my children and to bring me before the IDV judge at her whim.

IDV court’s focus is on protecting complainants. If no crime against a complainant seems to exist, IDV will find one. No allegation has proved too outlandish for the court.

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This story makes me angry. Sometimes it feels like there is no justice! When I see that this is how our tax dollars are being spent, it makes my blood boil! That sense of injustice can really make a person cynical... The way the system plays with our lives as if it were a game of checkers, (Not even Chess, that would take too much effort) makes one consider going around the law, and doing otherwise unfathomable things in one's anger...

What is it going to take to stop the insanity that is perpetrated upon innocent Fathers and Mothers who have been lied to without justice? Whose Children have been ripped from their lives on the word of a Liar? Who are feeling the sting of emptiness and longing for their loved ones who have been taken so flippantly from them?

Bob Dylan once said in a song "...When you've got nothing, You've got nothing to lose..." For many good Mothers and Fathers, their Children are their lives, And they would literally do anything for them! The feeling of losing one's children is like losing your whole life, and in many cases, one's reason for living! It is downright dangerous to treat good people like common criminals and to play with people's lives...

What is it going to take for change in The System? A revolution? When people feel like they have nothing to lose they become "dangerous". If this mindset is channeled properly, IT CAN INSPIRE CHANGE in an otherwise horrible system through alot of work and not taking "No" for an answer... Hang in there, Mister Bornstein, and anyone else who's going through this same situation who's reading this. Don't lose heart and don't take any S*** from anybody! Keep the faith, There is hope!

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